*Help* She wants to use her VA loan but we aren't marry how can I own half of the house???*Help* She wants to use her VA loan but we aren't marry how can I own half of the house??? Okay so my girlfriend is trying to get a house using her VA loan, I was told by her realtor that since we aren't marry only she could be in the mortgage in order to be able to use the VA loan. The truth is I will be paying for half of this mortgage and I will take a personal loan to make this house the way we want it. However I need to know how can I have something draw for us saying I own part of this house because at the end of the day I'll be investing more money than her, she just wants to get the benefits of her VA loan. Or is this even possible? Or would it be best to be marry? I mean without my financial support she cant afford this house at this moment and I am not willing to pay for something that I have no rights to or were I could in the future for whatever reason lose all the money I invested on that property.August 30 2014 - Roanoke00YesReport a ProblemProblemSelect oneOffensive contentIrrelevant contentSpam (pure self-promotion)OtherDetailsYour emailPlease enter a valid email address.Submit CancelContent flaggedWe will review this content. Thanks for helping make the site more useful to everyone. To learn more, read Zillow's Good Neighbor Policy.We're sorry. This service is temporarily unavailable. Please come back later and try again.