I'm choosing to refinance my house to buy my ex-husband out. Do we split the cost of the refinance?We have about $112,000 in equity after the appraisal. I need to give him 50%. Would we deduct the cost of the refinance from the equity before we split it? I've also wondered if we would deduct Realtor fees as if we were selling, although that doesn't seem right since I get to keep the house.March 18 2011 - Redlands00YesReport a ProblemProblemSelect oneOffensive contentIrrelevant contentSpam (pure self-promotion)OtherDetailsYour emailPlease enter a valid email address.Submit CancelContent flaggedWe will review this content. Thanks for helping make the site more useful to everyone. To learn more, read Zillow's Good Neighbor Policy.We're sorry. This service is temporarily unavailable. Please come back later and try again.