Is it okay for a friend of a friend to buy my short sale?

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I know the buyer cannot be my acquaintance, but I work for attorneys who have wealthy friends who are always looking for investments. Is that okay since their friends don't know me, or am I treading into dangerous territory?
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February 19 2010 - Bayview

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It is a-okay!  It gets "touchy" when family members buy from other family members.  Aquaintances, friends and such do not count.
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February 19 2010

You can sell your house to a friend or even a family member. It would be considered a non-arms length transaction. Non-arms length transactions present more risk for several reasons but they happen all the time. Please feel free to contact me if you would like to discuss in more detail.

Good luck!

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February 19 2010
I would ask an attorney because this is a touchy area.  On the surface, it would seem there is no problem, but it would not hurt you to double check with an attorney to make sure you have protected yourself. 
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February 19 2010
yes the issue is family member not friend... must be 'arms length transaction'
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February 19 2010
Everything counts, take no legal advice about this on line, see a lawyer

If a "friend" of a friend is somehow going to "work it" so you get back into your home, it's a huge no. If you are in anyway connected to this "sale" You and your "friend" are in for some hard core legal issues.

There are some well meaning people trying to help out homeowners that are in trouble, especially here in the Bay Area that have got into some trouble over this. If you want advice, see a lawyer. You should not have  any influences in the short sale of this home. None.
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February 25 2010
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When I posted my Ultimate Short Sale FAQs sheet on my website I did not include this simple question.  Obviously an oversight! 

Marielad,  Every lender I have worked with will not allow a non arms length transaction.  Why?  They are simply under the impression there are some shenanigans going on.   Can't blame them...consider the source!

Friends, associates and colleagues are arms length.  The important thing to remember is to not yell out  "the buyer is my lifelong best friend".

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February 27 2010
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Short sales are often bought by investors who have knowledge of the seller.  The key is that the transaction is "arms length" and not biased by a personal relationship.  Many banks require a form be signed by all parties insuring the transaction is an arms lenght transaction.
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March 01 2010
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it's ok but be VERY careful of getting involved in an A to B, B to C transaction.  These are illegal and there are pending cases in court as we speak.
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July 24 2010
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As long as you don't get any financial benefit presently or in the future. Good luck to you in the process, let me know if I can help.

Best,
David Anderton
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August 21 2010
Sure, but it could get a little sticky on the friendship side.
Remember it is business....
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August 22 2010
 
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