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My mortgage has been modified, but stll cannot affort it

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We are in the "Home Affordable Program" with our lender, but the mortgage is still too high.  Ths is the third modification, but still the interest rate is not low enough and the mortgage payment is too high.  Do I go for the short sale in this case or hold on and keep struggling until times get better?  I was told by our lender that we will have to do a short sale before we can do a deed in lieu.  I would love to just give the home back and break free in clear and start over.  In the meantime, we have accepted the loan modification and now we are struggling to make this second payment.  You must make 3 payments on time in a row and then the modification is binding.  Foreclosure is looming above our head so we felt we had no other alternative but to sign on for the third modification even though we disagreed with the mortgage payment.  Thanks so much for your advice.
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March 08 2011 - South Euclid
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This is just an opinion, but I would not let your home drag you down.  It's just a home and in the end there are much more important things in life like your health, mental or physical.

What are homes renting for in your area?  Would they be more affordable than your current mortgage?  Would you breathe easier, sleep better, and be happier if you were not strapped by a mortgage? These are all questions I would ask myself if in your position.
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March 08 2011
In my opinion, you have a lot of nerve complaining about 3 modifications, most are begging for an opportunity to get one. You are not entitled to a lower interest rate or payment, you are entitled to pay what you contractually agreed to pay. If after 3 modifications you still cannot afford your home, then you bought too much home. 

This statement actually irritates me:

"I would love to just give the home back and break free in clear and start over."

Well guess what, I would love to have not doubled down in Vegas last week on an 11 and drawn a deuce. I begged for another card but the dealer would not give me one! 

I know everyone here likes to give PC answers and coddle people like this, but this borrower has obviously not learned anything and will only repeat the same behavior. This era of no consequences has to stop!

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It is my opinion that if a borrower cannot afford the payments, the lender "wants" the borrower to default so that the lender can foreclose on the property, as that is the only way the lender can collect on the Mortgage Insurance.

As a "business", they certainly have no intention of giving away something for nothing.

Refinances are not really supposed to be for the benefit of the borrower; they are for the lender, to keep those payments coming in.

It really sounds like a Realtor® talked you in to buying more house than you could afford, and at an unreasonable inflated cost too?
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