The sites can take a 24 to 48 hours to sync together. If the sync does not occur you'd need to contact the origin site for trouble shooting.
If you would like more assistance on trying to sell by yourself, feel free to contact me anytime. If the process does not work for you, I then would be happy to assist you in the decision making process if listing your home would be the best avenue to ultimately obtain your goals.
The title company as well as the loan office both need to earn their fees by assisting you with any of your needs. You also can call HUD directly at (202) 708-1112 and they will send your to the assistance hotline.